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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 25.06.2025 03:11

How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Do you believe that the US and Israel's preparations for all possibilities in response to potential Iranian attacks are sufficient to prevent a wider Middle East conflict?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

When you visit a store, do you go to shop or buy?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why did Donald Trump and Melania Trump sleep in different rooms?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What are some current examples of injustice?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why is Joe Biden so vocal about supporting Ukraine's defense against Russia?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

That's it for today.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Does not procrastinate.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Ask yourself:

Hangs out with loser friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What I need from you?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.